Don’t learn lessons the hard way. Discover how those who lived before you did it and figuratively use it in your decision or choice process to minimize the risk of making the wrong decisions. Prepare yourself to easily know when to say "Yes" or "No" to yourself and others.“Decisions create your wins and losses, pains and happiness, peace and troubles, safety and dangers, success and failures, liberty and restrictions, health, and sickness, and even in many cases, longevity and premature death.”“Your decisions or choices lead, control, and create your present and future life conditions, and to change them, you have to start making the right decisions or choices.”“There is nothing like a small decision, even the decision you think is insignificant will amount to crucial or weighty results or consequences. And there is nothing like a personal decision in a real context; even when it looks like one, all your good or bad decisions, affect other people directly or indirectly, instantly, or progressively, sooner or later.”